Not tonight, seitan!

In years gone by, I would be ready to report in real-time.

These days the world has moved on. 

I yelled at someone today in a crosswalk as they crossed against the light. I do not feel good about this, but they were in the wrong. I asserted what I wanted to say, and they told me to fuck off. 

Today I wrote about people asking for improvements to the pedestrian infrastructure two blocks to the east at that same location. A woman died in a crosswalk there while crossing and there were no lights at all.

That was not the case where I was trying to get through.

I wasn't inconvenienced. I just think it's important for people to follow signs if they are in a place that tells them it is not safe to cross.

I feel bad about yelling. And on this Election Night that's what I hope to remember. I feel like I need to be able to describe situations in my professional life and also be able to express concern when someone is breaking a rule.

Wanting rules doesn't mean you want to be a fascist.

I want order. I want people to realize they are in a system. Systems need some basic idea that there is a way things are to be done. 

In this case, I wanted someone to know if they cross a street that has a signal saying "don't cross" they might get hurt or killed. It's on my brain. I want people to survive. That means you pay attention to some of the rules and don't decide you get to flaunt one of them in the name of your own story.

And now I worry that maybe this person will report the transaction. That would be fine. I already acknowledge I maybe should not have said anything, but it was dusk and I see people driving very aggressively all of the time. I was not aggressive, though I did respond in kind to the fuck you.

I'm both a person who writes about public infrastructure and someone who coexists within it. 

It happened and I hope to meet the person to try to explain. It was not just that moment. Each of us is an intelligence with memory co-existing in the same space. 

No matter what happens, I'm going to keep trying to flesh out all I can.  

Tales from dreamland during the time warp

Part one

I woke up during the time warp after sleeping for about four hours. I had to exist for a little while on this plane.

In the dream, I was with a partner and the relationship wasn't going well. We were in a parking garage that had been a train. I've been there before in other phantom moments.

Something was happening and no one was getting out of the garage. The cars were all lined up and it didn't seem we'd be moving any time soon.

The partner and I weren't communicating with each other. Something was tense, but I didn't want to pay attention. I had realized that we had arrived in a city I like, and it was possible to get out and go have a drink somewhere.

The partner didn't want to go, and neither did anyone when I announced it to everyone. I went down the stairs and arrived in a spot outside this bar I know I've seen in my dreams before.

I had a moment where I felt such joy I was there, by myself, able to experience life on my terms. I was in a crowded city at night and there was life everywhere.

Nothing else really happened. I remember just feeling very happy and somehow by typing it out I know I'm creating a pathway back to that moment that didn't exist yet will be with me as I continue to draw air and adjust to the winter hours of waking up in the middle of the night just to feel alive on my terms.

(I did chores while listening to podcasts, laughing, grateful that this is the life I have and not some other assemblage of moments)

Part two

Sean Tubbs

I had three other major dreams in the night, though they've faded.

But after this one, I had a hard time getting back to sleep. My mind wanted to be consuming information and responding accordingly. I played keyboard for about 30 minutes as I spent a lot of yesterday setting it up in a place I can record.

Sometimes I begin to dream as I am awake and my mind gets confused about what's real and I snap out of it. This is known as a hypnic jerk, which sort of describes me quite well. But this reflex seeks to prevent me from falling into a mind trap of something that may not be real.

At some point, I made it past a hypnic jerk and ended up in a room with some friends. Or the friends showed up in my room and I was there, desperately trying to sleep. So I tried to force myself, and imagined that the way to sleep was to fall through reality. And I kept trying, but their voices kept pulling me back.

Finally, though, I peeled away and fell into an underwater cave, and I had to swim toward the light, maybe ten feet. I took a deep breath and then realized I didn't have to because I knew it wasn't real.

I passed into an empty room with a large window facing either the sunrise or the sunset. I didn't know which because I had just arrived. I opened up the window and passed into a small town somewhere, and proceeded to spend the next little while exploring, trying to talk to people, taking in so many details that have now faded. I was aware I was a being of power and I tested this by trying to control whatever I could. I made people fly. I shot lasers out my hands.

All the while, I could hear my friends through the underwater cave, taunting me. I didn't want to pay attention, so I tried to hold on to whatever this new reality was. I knew it wouldn't last, but i wanted to test out the parameters of it all. At one point I attempted to fight a pirate, but he wasn't going to mess with me.

I began to worry that maybe the voices were concerned. Maybe I was dying in the real world. Maybe I should just check and see what happened.

So I took one rise into the sky, a power I love having in my dreams. I could see on the horizon a large city beckoning me, but I had to go back to that little room.

So I laid on the ground and repeated the same process of trying to will myself to fall into the next world. And it was easy to wind back up in the underwater cave, so I swam through and as I got closer to the people in the room and the reality of my existence, I became aware of a red liquid all over the place and decided... I don't want to go back there.

And I woke up.